I think you've almost got it. But, it's not about the landing or not about the fight. It's about working the entire engagement not just a single enemy you've arbitrarily chosen to engage. It's about making all the right decisions at all the right times to kill as efficiently as possible while at the same time retaining the initiative.
For example...A TnB'er might think, "I am going to kill plane X", then engage him then sequentially engage another depending on the outcome. An initiative fighter might instead look at the entire engagement, sector or area attempting to work out how to play with potentially all of the enemy non-sequentially for maximum effectiveness while not getting limited to the point where he has to turn with one particular plane or die. Think of it as looking at the entire forest vs. just looking at just one tree. Sure, we could subjectively say some of the initiative fighter's kills are not as qualitatively "pure" in the chivalrous sense, some will be, some won't. The fun is in playing the big picture, working the initiative into opportunities to kill and getting away with it.
Beautifully explained ... under just those circumstances.
I consider myself a dyed in the wool TnBer ... but under the right circumstances, I will turn into a BnZer (I do know how to BnZ).
If I am flying in an F6F and encounter multiples, and if they are below me, I will scan them and mentally pick an order in which to attack them so as maximize my advantage. I will not pick the 1st guy and then start a TnB session with him. If I can't get him on the 1st pass, it's up I go, re-evaluate and then back in again. I will continue this until all are dead or I made a mistake in judgment and died as a result ... because I really don't care if I die ... I am there for the challenge and it is the taking on of the challenge that is the reward for me ... not getting wheels on the runway.
Now, on the other hand, if I am flying along in an F6F and I see a lone 190/109/whatever, I will turn to engage and let the chips fall where they may and could only hope for a palm sweating, heart pumping fight ... win or lose.
Never ... and I repeat ... never will I turn tail thinking ... zOMG there is a 109 and he just may hand me my arse so I better bug out and maybe come back and whack him while one of my countrymen has him all tied up.