I'm a cargo pilot, I make $3.3K/month after taxes. I owe $5K in CC bills, I rent $1250/month, I own my 3 cars and my bike. The killer is my chick that's back to school while working part time at wally. I pay the whole rent, all the house bills, $200/month her school, $350 her CC bills, her car insurance, her gas, her car is paid for since last jully. We have a 14 year old daughter, those things ain't cheap either
Job security is non existant since it's aviation. I do have seniority as well as a rare single pilot type rating, and a solid history of autonomy, and I'm the only training captain. All that makes me valuable to them. Bad side is that I'm type rated on an antique bucket that few companies still use in case of I have to find something else. I do have quite some experience with 1,500+h multi turbine PIC which might get me a ok job somewhere if I relocate, but I can't afford to relocate.
My chick will graduate end of the year, and should start pulling a $3-5K/month as a massage therapist. Till then, we have a pretty big Damocless sword above our familly's head.