But you also said the following.
My "issues" are simple. I'm a firm believer in the KISS principle and complexity for marketing value is a bad idea. The mere fact that you need 3-4 backup systems is a sure indication your heading down a bad rode IMO. Imagine if all the cars on the road had FBW instead of steering linkages.
This seems to imply you think FBW is just a bad idea all around as it violates the KISS principle and you do not think it can handle simple steering chores in a car, yet they have no problem handling the throttle, which is a more complex system.
Look at my car. It has no air meter. The throttle pedal activates some type of variable resistor, sending its values to the computer. The computer takes those values and adjusts the air flow by altering the amount of valve lift and duration, then also adjusts the duration of the direct injector firing time. It has to do all these things thousands of times a second and not miss a beat or problems could arise.
Steering would be done as follows. The computer reads the resistor value inputs from the steering wheel, then outputs the pulses to a servo control motor to activate the steering mechanism. Now, do you trust a servo control motor anymore or less than the power steering pump?
I am just playing devils advocate to your analogy. I realize it could have been a different one.
I may be wrong on this, but seems to me a good FBW system, in an airplane, is probably the simplest system you can have in terms of number of components and weight. I see no violation of the KISS principal.