I'm upgrading too, I'm looking at this card any advise:
NVIDIA GeForce GTS 250
* Core Clock Speed 738 MHz
* Graphics Card Performance This card is compatible with the new rendering features of DirectX 10, which is featured in the Windows Vista operating system.
* Video Memory Installed 1 GB
* Technology DDR3 SDRAM 256-bit
* Memory Clock Speed 2.2 GHz
* Features:
Nvidia PhysX-Ready , Nvidia Lumenex Engine , Nvidia 3-way SLI ready , Nvidia CUDA technology , Nvidia GigaThread technology , Nvidia SLI Multi-monitor support , Nvidia GeForce 3D Stereo technology