The tutorial AI agents will quickly provide u with the basics plusw some cash/ships/skill books. Make it a point to go thru the 3 initial tutorial agents, then u'll know enought to navigate ur way around.Then go to Sister something out of the Sister of Eve corporation in Arnon, she'll provide u with missions that can be made with what u have, a Frigate/Destroyer. By the time u are done with that, u'll havesome money in the bank to start what u want.
As frustrating as it may seem, spend your first 1.6 mil character points on "learning skills", it will make a load of difference in the long run, like 3 weeks to learn a skill level rather than 5 weeks.
Personaly I find EVE plenty borring, with the occasional satisfaction to ruin some's else day that meant u wrong.