I've seen a footage of an air-race midair collision in which a rear approaching plane collided with another plane flying in front of it. I took particular interest in the result, since it almost exactly replicated what happened in AH.
The plane behind smashed into the tail of the plane in front, and removed the whole rear fuselage - the horizontal, vertical stabs were gone in an instant. Obviously, the pilot of the plane behind tried to avoid the collision, and most of the damage was done by the props which just simply chopped off the rear end of the plane flying in front of it.
It was exactly the same thing as seen in AH when a plane fires at the target and blows off either the whole aft fuselage, or the two horizontal stabs.
... and what ultimately followed, was again, the same thing as seen in AH.
The plane which suddenly lost its tail, flipped upwards nose-high. The only difference was that in AH, the planes flips nose-high and then falls downwards in that state, whereas in real life, the plane flips upwards nose-high, and then the momentum of the flipping goes on and ultimately tumbles the wreckage, and it falls down to the ground tumbling and spinning in all directions.
At that moment, I was impressed by how AH got it right.
Obviously, in real life, things happen in the way how AH describes it, Dream Child, not in the way you think it might.