I guess Im having some trouble visualizing this (not hard to do considering we're trying to describe 3-D space in writing)...if I hold more lag (ie not try and pull inside his radius) in the scissors, wont the con end up on my 6?
Well, no.
This is a bit of a hijack, moving from HO shots to scissors, but since you're the OP I suppose it's ok.
A- You'll never initiate a scissors unless the con is
already on your six. (The point of the scissors is to take an opponent from your 6 and put him on your 12). If you're the aggressor, and your opponent begins to scissor, you probably have other, better, options than to scissor with him (A high yo-yo maybe, or a barrel roll
behind him, which is
not a scissors). If you're the aggressor and you enter a scissors with your opponent, you're already somewhat at a disadvantage
for that tactic, even though you may initially have an angles and energy advantage.
B- In a scissors, you're looking to fly a longer path, but make
less forward progress than your opponent. You do this by trying to "fall behind" him. Flying more pronounced barrel rolls in the rolling scissors, and reversing quickly/sharply enough in a flat scissors to get/keep your opponent out of plane. Pulling for a shot requires lead. This is aiming for/flying to a spot in front of your opponent. If you do this in a scissors you'll end up in front of your opponent. You'll end up doing a less-pronounced scissors, and make
more forward progress than him. That's exactly the opposite of what you want to do.
If you "race" to get the shot, or pull lead to get that shot, you'd better make it count. Because you'll be getting shot at yourself very quickly if you don't...
Check out the scissors info here-
http://trainers.hitechcreations.com/