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I may have angered some of you dropping into your fights. I didnt understand that many of you would rather die with someone on your 6 than be saved to fly away. Even as a n00b I know enough to watch around me when I am in a fight. I feel stupid when I am surprised and wish to avoid that. With that said, with me, never wait for an invitation to save my butt. You see a guy on me jump right in. If you see me coming to help you and you do not want help, then you better tell me, I got no idea who anyone is and how they prefer to fight.
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I can only speak for myself Zoney, and I'm not a true "vet" with my 2+ years of experience.
But the truth is, I would rather fight and lose, than "live". That's not to say I don't try to bring my cartoon butt home, and that's not to say I don't get torqued sometimes when I get killed in a "dweeby" way.
However, after playing a lot of hours, I've come to realize that the game is a treadmill. The point (for me) isn't to get somewhere; it's to enjoy my time on the treadmill.
Eventually, you reach a point where you (may) realize that, I can spend a lot of time trying to live, or I can spend a lot of time trying to match skills against another player, seeing if I'm better, seeing what I can learn to be a better cartoon dogfighter. I don't need perks, I don't need a name in lights. If I can be a name that people recognize as a "good fight" then that is probably as much as I can, or want, to achieve.
Understand that the most fun in the game, for me, is to pit myself against another player and beat him. That's it. I like getting kills, but I don't need them.
Fly how you want, but realize it's just a game. I might only have a few hours a week to play; I'm not going to spend my "gaming" time flying around avoiding fights. I can do that for free offline.
Give it a few years and see if you still feel the same way.
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