Maybe I misunderstood you. I fly 8-11 PM eastern. So, in my case I only see west coasters if they start early, or if I can hang on longer....just on old guy who needs all the beauty sleep I can get... We have had guys join us from the west coast, but they never really last long because most of us are east coasters so are logged off when they are on.
So you being in Tx I guess we rarely run into each other, except maybe on weekends. If you fly more during the week you wouldn't hook up with a squad that is on during the weekends.
What I'm saying is I would never fly with the Jokers or the Pigs, or the Bops because they don't fly when I'm on line. Today alot of "people" seem to want to join a squad because they either have a certain rep, or place on the scoreboard as opposed to a squad that flies when they do. You your self said you joined your squad because they helped you when you first started. If you ran your 2 week trail during vacation and those guys helped you out during the day, once you started work again you would not likely be able to fly with them.
While I don't think it's something thats frowned upon, it just doesn't make a lot of sense to fly with a squad that isn't flying when your on.