You are both wrong, BH6 CAN run 133Mhz fsb even though it's not officially supported by Abit.
I had a memory that it was even officially supported, but it seems I remembered wrong. It's possible to use the latest Cumine and celeron cores through an adapter.
Regardless of that, PC133 SDRAM will work just as fine in BH6. The PC rating only shows the rated top speed for a certain RAM. Ram voltage, CAS, RAS etc. settings may become a problem if the ram is exotic and the bios lacks support - but I doubt that's the case.
Maybe the problem is that you bought (probably super expensive) IBM ECC ram which you don't need in the first place.. You should stick the ram back the sellers b*tt before it sees the light of day. You were ripped off.
Buy Kinsgston, Crucial or Apacer CAS2 SDRAM, they will be cheaper and will work in your box. Mushkin or Corsair would be overshoot with the mid-low end system of yours.