I do understand your point Ink, and that it relates to Ma not DA. In the Ma we are usualy either attacking or defending, very rarely 'merging' with anyone. The concept of 'the merge' relates to me a situation where there are only two players. In free fighting, with multiple numbers, there is only attack or defence. It's only when two players face off alone that a 'merge' is even to be considered, imo.
every engagement whether it be in DA or MA has a merge, does not matter, if you are engaged with multi cons do you not, watch out for when the next attack comes, and then avoid or get under him, there is a merge in every fight no matter the cons.
I fly every fight in DA or MA the same, (besides HOing against Multi cons or zero's in MA)
I was headed to an nme field one day, I saw a lone con, so we engage one another, I do my thing, he did not shoot at my face but did the typical "text-book" merge, he died in a half turn, so I keep going to the nme field, it just so happened that one con after another attacked me, not as a horde but a few minutes between each contact, I killed 8 before I ran out of ammo,each and every one was because
A- most came in head on (text-book)
B I flew the merges the way I always do.