That pretty much sums it up for me, except, I AM a pretty near sighted pilot to boot. If I were really skilled, no icons in the AvA might be a fun test of my SA skills... I'm not, so AvA feels like nothing more then running as a target drone for the AH2 "Eliteniks"...
I don't have the time or abilities to acheive their levels of skill, so I guess no AvA for me... Since I won't die at someone else's guns in real life, I really can't spend the time to become an AH2 savant...
I get the immersion thing, honestly that's what I am going for most of the time. I just don't have the time to develope my SA to the levels needed to be anything other then a target in the AvA (and nearly FSO for that matter).
I'll continue to laugh anytime anyone wonders why AvA is a ghost town... Us regular folks like at least a super slim chance at winning, even without giving the SA "giants" an opening advantage...
SA in a no icon environment is pretty simple to develop. All it requires is one or more wing men. The real world is no icon and mutual lookout is imperative and the world spends lots of money on helping pilots "see" the other guys in a fight.
No icons isn't an elite arena and the pilots that fly there aren't the cream in of the crop. In fact I would posit that they are below the average skill level in Aces High (myself included). Some of them like to bluster that they are the best of the best but don't believe it.
I've been flying online for well over a decade and can tell you the hardest environment to survive in is a full icon arena in a plane that isn't the fastest thing around. With icons on skill and decision making are critical. There is no room for error when the enemy has a targeting computer that "sees" you over 3 miles away with high accuracy.
A second factor that makes the AvA easier is the historic matchup and limited plane set. You always know what you are facing and with a little planning can keep the fight to your advantage.
The lack of icons makes escaping in a slower airplane a possibility. Since you are harder to see smaller airplanes have an advantage. You can adjust your flying style to make yourself harder to see. No icons favors a flying style that makes it harder to you. A flying style that uses oblique maneuver works better than one that sticks to pure vertical or pure horizontal.
I love no icons. I think its fun and gets the adrenaline pumping because of the uncertainty. It takes a bit of getting used to and you die in the transition a bit. I hadn't flown no icons for nearly two months until Friday night and died until I got re-acclimated.
Give it a try. Its nice for a change of pace. Give it some time to really see if you like it. Ignore the chest pounding and remember that many of those guys are in there because they get the floor wiped with themselves in the Main Arenas. Those are easy to spot. They will be the ones in the AvA demanding everyone fly like its a Bruce Lee movie where the bad guys take turns fighting the Hero. Sure sign of a guy looking for a place to be a Big Fish in a small pond.
To repeat, I love no icons and historical matchups but it isn't any harder or more worthy than anything else in this game.