The first couple of times in the AvA room flying by myself I had a person tell me that to never ever BnZ him that it was not allowed in the room
Bogus, no one should have told you that.
There are some behaviors that will make you less friends than others that is all, and BnZ shouldn't be one of them.
I think we are all sometimes guilty of things that others object to.
The other night I was following a bandit and at some point I thought he turned back to engage me and in the melee I found myself with a damaged plane right over their base. I ended up getting killed but heard in a roundabout way that folks were annoyed I was attacking folks who were trying to land.
I was kind of shocked. I sure didn't think I shot at anyone who was landing. I don't know, I guess I was just totally oblivious and not even paying attention to what I was doing.
I trust they will forgive me, for I was being more of an idiot than a bad sportsman.