This is not fully correct. He claimed he shipped the monitor only. Last time he communicated with me, he said he would "try" to ship the computer. That was over a week ago.
......but until its proven nothing was shipped and he truly ripped you off...I would rather give a friend all the chances possible...but that's just me, I am not quick to send someone especially a friend, to the gas chamber so to speak.
wouldn't you want the same?
isn't it possible that "crap happens"
I sold a painting off of E bay...it took over 3 weeks to get there,(yes he was Blaming me) yet I payed for 3 day shipping....not only that I also paid so they needed a signature to deliver yet they just dropped it off at his house when no one was home.
seems to me you have jumped the gun, and I hope and pray that fluff'n thing shows up.
God forbid you ever screw up with one of your friends, and they treat you the way you have dealt with this.