The fact that you're not trying to be a jerk doesn't quite help you in this case as you were acting like one anyway, without trying. So, good job.
You're not obligated to like my films, in fact you do not have to. If you like the film great, if you don't that's fine too and you have the right to your opinion. The one thing I expect from most people is to be polite, it is the least you can expect from anyone. If you can't be polite, regardless of what your perspective is otherwise, it is more telling of you than whoever you're communicating with or anyone else for that matter. So anyone smart enough to realize this who does not want to look like a fool always watch their language and manners. When people don't, I do not take offense at all because it really has nothing to do with me because I'm not responsible for how others behave.
So... if you undrstand my perspective, you also know that I appreciate your opinion, but your opinion does not govern how I make films. So... thanks for telling me what you think of the film. I'm glad there are people who do enjoy it... there always will be people who don't. If you don't, then appreciate the fact that it took time and effort to make the film, and that there are people who do like these type of films and that you have no right to spew bad remarks all over the place because you happen to not like it.
If you want to see a better film, the go make one yourself!
Thanks