I'd rather discuss it openly with the whole AcesHigh community.
You need to discuss your issues directly with HTC, because they run this place. This is not a democracy. You have no rights. In fact, that bears repeating: You have no rights. Rather, you
may be granted some privileges,
if you behave. There are no hard and fast rules about what will get you muted. There is no official list of forbidden words. The "rules" are deliberately vague, so HTC can have some latitude in dealing with immature behavior. You are expected to comport yourself like a mature adult - a gentleman - and maintain an attitude of good sportsmanship.
Bye!