Skuzzy could replace all the rules with just one- "If you can't say something nice then don't say anything at all"- and that would cover just about every situation.
SkyRock, I really and sincerely wish you the very best in overcoming your demons and getting your life together.
See guys? That was simple, and honest. Addiction is tough enough to overcome without being harassed here.
Be supportive, or be quiet.
-Airhead