Very sad...some folks go to places that they lose themselves. They can't find their way back...lots of reasons but it reminds me to remind you guys of that old Dr Seuss line that is so true about each of us:
“Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.”
― Dr. Seuss
They were just kids books but they are relevant for adults...amazing.