You didn't understand, I understand. Fly the way you want. Worry less about your presumption regarding
how I or anyone else fly, float or fart (many of us were in your shoes long before you and grew out of it).
Whine less, fly more. Or just whine less, period. 
That terrible folk music has rotted your brain. I think we've long established that everyone can fly the way they want. That is not up for debate. If you'd stop trying to make everything about virtual social injustice you might be able to give a straight answer. Something like this:
The fact is if you were risking your life--or a severe electroshock--you would not be so careless. There is very little in this game to disincentivise dying. I am trying to take a slightly more realistic approach for the most part. That is more challenging than diving into a group with careless and previously mentioned reckless abandon.
At least in games like Black Ops Zombie mode the penalty is discouraging to the kamikaze mode. Yes, you will die eventually. But each time you do it is time to start all over and that is so boring! Get me to level twenty. Now.
No butthurt. No inferiority complex. No attention seeking accusations. He simply gave a reason why he flies like he does and it made sense. Novel concept.
