Part of the original premise of the OP was about overcoming (or compensating for) the difficulty of learning a very complicated set of tactics (fighting pairs). I believe he said 'Welded Wing' which just one technique among many in the element/flight/squadron tool bag.
The wish does not meet this part of the problem statement.
A formation of fighters requires space and individual maneuvering to be effective. This is VERY difficult in Aces High because the education required usually transcends the 'fun-factor' of a game. But we can all quickly point to squadrons that have gotten it done. We can also point out guys that fly the two position (wingman) very well in ad-hoc fights in the arenas.
I'm sure the previous responses here have, in their way, addressed this by probing the poster's motives. I have no comment on that. I will say the OP has a terrific historical grasp of how the ME109 was fought after the 'F' model. This is based on my own observations over the years.
You can't properly fix a problem with an incomplete or flawed problem definition. I can't support an adjustment to the game to solve a problem that is intrinsically found in the pilot.
all here.