Yes, I use the shadowplay feature is the main reason I have it. But you hit the nail on the head, I am lazy and have quite a few games so I just hit that easy "optimize" button.
Seems to work pretty well though, in regards to setting the qualities for my system IMO.
Hehehe...I'm lazy too and I tend to use the optimization feature as well for games I don't use SweetFX or ENB on. I'm actually pleasantly surprised how well it does optimize the graphic settings, on a couple of games it's actually done a better job than the settings I manually set and not only did it provide a FPS gain, it also made the game look better (Batman Arkham Origins).
How had Shadow Play developed? I had issues with it but could tell the codec had legs.
I believe it's still technically in 'beta' but Nvidia keeps on improving and providing new features for it. Unfortunately, it still doesn't have multi-monitor support but I believe that is in the pipeline if what I've read on the forums is correct. What issues were you having?
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