The pilot that calls,"I got this" and fights his own battle,, close second is the pilot that stays out of an obvious one v one or at least asks before getting into it.
Worst is the guy that follows a broken plane to the deck shooting and shooting after someone else has already shot it down, trying to gain the kill message.
As far as the enemy, fight to win, secondly fight to survive,, a great fight followed by a short pursuit is just as good as a fight to the death for both sides, live to fight another day, an enemy that has you killed and let's you go will get more respect than any other player in the game as far as I can tell!. Salute, instead of calling BS, many times I've thought, how the heck, then I remember , I don't know it all, it's just a game and stuff happens!
And Hoing is part of combat, it was one of the most effective parts of WW2 fighter combat, if you show me your not going to I won't either on the merge, all the rest of it is war!
Just my opinion tho,, it's a fun game.