You want in, barge in, we embrace the motivated and aggressive, and reward the successful.
So what happened with Perdweeb then?
The only problem with ROC's post about survival of the fittest, having a strong backbone, and so on, is that in his particular case it isn't practice what you preach. If it was, why was Perdweeb banned from FSO/Events, not due to any rule breaking in the game, but due to personal comms with ROC and other CMs? Edit - you can add the entire squad of KN to that, since IT was banned from FSO/Events as a result as well.
I can understand where the rambling OP post is coming from - sort of - having been a member of a squad that was removed from FSO, when I personally had never said a single word to anyone about anything regarding it, yet POOF, adios squad and FSO, due to personal PMs, posts, and emails made by others - others not me - that CMs didn't like. If you're overly critical of anything regarding the old boys club, watch out, ostracization for you and any associated with you is just a whiny call to Skuzzy away. Where is the "it's a cruel harsh world out there, you just have to deal with it" theory when it comes to that?
I would say to the OP, ignore the self righteous and fallacious rambling posts giving contrary advice, and just continue to do your own thing, and find fun where you can. I've been playing as long or longer than anyone, and 90 percent of that time was solo, outside of any squad interaction. Make a wide variety of friends in multiple squads, most will let you hang out in their squad comms without actually being a member. Start doing that, and leave when you wish.