I have yet to meet a person who isn't a pervert in one way or another.
Indeed. And since we're baring our souls and I'm going to stand by Serenity in this situation I'll just go ahead and 'out' myself.
My fiancee is 20 years old. Yep that's a 31 year age difference. Most men would say 'way to go!!!' That's not why I fell in love with her and she dang sure didn't fall in love with me for financial security. I fell for her for her heart and her mind. Why she fell for me is still a mystery. Lots of people look down on us.
So, do, please while you're at it throw some darts at me for being a perv or a predator. Throw darts at her for being a gold digger and I'll laugh at you. I don't have any gold to dig.
I'll take those labels way before I'll accept being called a bigot or a hypocrite.