I think the failure here was the inability to act respectful in a situation where a simple request to switch airframes could have easily avoided this entire situation.
"hey 68falcon and Dantoo, do you mind if the 475th switches aircraft with the 68th Lighting Lancers for Frame 1? We are a historic P-38 squadron and would like fly them if possible."
I've known 68falcon and Dantoo for nearly 20 years, I'm sure they would have accommodated your request.
Shame it came to this and was easily avoidable.
<S> and understood DH.