First of all, just to be clear I don't mean any of this as browbeating, but as genuine questions. Why are you equating no holds barred gameplay with "lack of respect"? .....Wiley.
I didn't think I was equating the two, rather differentiating "play hard" from play with a modicum of respect... The instance that set this off was having a player specifically follow a target back to base with more than enough targets along the way only to WAIT until i attempted to land to shoot me up...
Would you concede that following a player to base to shoot their crippled plane on landing is a D*ck move? If so, then I'd feel vindicated, but if you believe this is standard operating procedure and find nothing wrong with that behaviour then I'm just saddened.
I suppose I simply need to adjust my expectations...
I guess it happens to everyone at least once... lol it's not a great feeling when it happens, that's FOR SURE.