Right off the bat... I did not read all prior posts...I'll put my self in the stocks and await pummeling.
1st) It should, SHOULD be hard......not impossible. IF you don't stress that you will not get those that can/could/will-wipe-you-out pilots....make it hard(it is) Do Not hide that.
Second) I think we've gotten friendlier..well, I have. Try not beat up on people new....OR, only post in Caps.
Three-ish) we need every one to chill....Hell, it can ONLY get better
be well