Vraciu, the point at issue is the meaning of "can't find a fight".
I interpret this literally, meaning that the speaker can't find a fight under any circumstances. You clearly don't. Your last post contains all sorts of implications to this effect, e.g. "I fight smartly" (sic). If all you needed was "a fight", that wouldn't matter. But you want fights which are enjoyable. That is not unreasonable, but to avoid the type of criticism you are complaining about, you need to make it clear as to what you sometimes lack; i.e. not fights per se, but enjoyable fights.
That's why I used the term disingenuous-ness (misspelled), because you are clearly intelligent enough to understand the difference I outline above.
MH