You say "dogfight off the base". They probably say "vulch". Let them get up, don't chase them into the ack if you don't want to die. Pretty simple really. Or, if you're trying to take the base, that's part of the game and requires strafing.
Now, with that said, I've had a guy ack drag me back to his base a sector away from 5k over my base.
And adding 88 specific friendly fire is a terrible idea for the MA.
Wiley.