De-tuning 200 is the best thing you can do. The other side can’t PM you and you them. As a result, if you de-tune, you avoid the smack talk altogether.
I live for the smack talk on 200. Hell last night a player who I won't mention
called me out for being a hopeless drunk and terrible father for sinking the bish cv off of 35 and wrecking Ng any bish/rook fur ball with my B17's
You know I get it 200 can he a ruthless place but here is the thing. Over the years I survived my own emotional and mental carnage in and out of the game so for me I thrive in the chaos and utter carnage that is 200 at times. There is no community standard gentleman's code that is up to the individual player and when people's time investment gets ruined they lash out