The "look at me" immaturity can spoil it for all.
I agree. A man must know his limits
When it turns to deeply personal thats not a person who is good at it, its weakness, thin skinned and ugly. Ugly is not cool nor funny.
Many who engage have known each other for a long time and take it well. Personally I laugh it off, as it should be done. Friendly nudging is encouraged. I’ve seen just as bad as 200 in backyard baseball games.
That said, since my return, 200 and bbs has recently evolved into more acceptable levels.