We are all dweebs and have fallen short of the grace of being über.
You're conflating several situations:
With the Chawg and the N1k, you have two problems: one you've got a dweeb taking advantage of the unrealistic advantages these A/C have in the arena. Two, you've got a dweeb whining about it.
My personal rule of conduct is don't call anybody a dweeb for their UFO plane selection unless they call you a dweeb for not (in the case of the N1K2) turning with them or not (in the case of the C-hawg) getting anywhere near their guns.
As for the La-7, Runstang and Hunstang, and points 7 and 8 in general, that's easier. When you're in an unterplane, you need every trick in your arsenal to sucker the other guy into a fight. When I fly the 205, my most powerful weapon is to piss the other guy off enough to make slow him down. If someone's calling you names and you're motoring away, it should be obvious that what you have is not an insult per se, but rather a tactical taunt.
As you can see, N1Ks and Chawgs should not deploy the tactical taunt.
13 is downright foolish. 14 is fine, as long as you keep the railgun off your n1k.
9 and 10 are praiseworthy. This is the MA, not WWII.
6 is strategically advisable as there are persons here who lose all color of reason when they're shot out of their chute. An irrational adversary is better tamed. So chute shooting is a vital part of the AH strat model.
12 depends on your definition of map.
15 is in itself the high mark of dweebdom. We are all dweebs, etc.