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Offline AKDejaVu

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« on: November 04, 2002, 02:45:11 PM »
My oldest dog had a very rough nigh and is not doing well.  I have to have him put down tonight.

I didn't think it would be this difficult.

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« Reply #1 on: November 04, 2002, 02:49:52 PM »
It's not like you really have a choice... :(

 I hope you are talking about a vet giving him a shot to literally "put him to sleep" and cause him to expire painlessly in your arms rather than more dramatic ways?

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« Reply #2 on: November 04, 2002, 02:51:30 PM »
I know the feeling,  Imagine having to carry your dog in, when he's lost all functions of his legs.  He had fallen down the stairs twice that morning.  I could see the pain in his eyes. Probably was the only time he didn't fight going to the vet looked at me and his eyes said I understand and it's okay.    Was the hardest thing to do in my life, since I grew up with him when I was 7 years old.  He lived to be 15.

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« Reply #3 on: November 04, 2002, 02:55:44 PM »
Deja,

Know what you mean. The wife and I had to take a cat she had had for many years to the vet to be put down. It had cancer and we didn't want to see it suffer. As soon as she started showing signs of distress we made the appointment. They are someone you love and it's hard to say good bye even when you know it's the right thing to do.

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« Reply #4 on: November 04, 2002, 02:56:06 PM »
my advice in this situation.

Go in with him, hold him, sooth him when he goes.

I panicked when I had to put mine down and they dragged him away and put him down alone and scared.

It's my biggest regret of decisions so far in my life.
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« Reply #5 on: November 04, 2002, 02:56:37 PM »
diddly.  I'm sorry.  

Not sure if you've been throught this before, but it's very quick.
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« Reply #6 on: November 04, 2002, 03:01:59 PM »
OMG...deja, I'm sorry to hear this man.

I had to do the same thing about two years ago.  My best friend for 13 almost 14 years...and it was TOUGH.  

Nothing I can say to make you feel better.  Time will heal the pain...and only time.  

It is totally painless though, my buddy died right in my arms...the way he would have wanted to go.  It was much harder for me.

Again...I'm really sorry to hear this and I know what you must be going through.

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« Reply #7 on: November 04, 2002, 03:06:36 PM »
Sorry to hear that Deja, mine is going on 13, and is having difficulties getting up...I feel as though I may have to walk the green mile with him soon, so to speak...

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« Reply #8 on: November 04, 2002, 03:12:41 PM »
hardest thing in the world to do...

but something that must be done.
I imagine when it's my time and I'm old and grey(er)...
once my quality of life sucks then please. put me down.

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« Reply #9 on: November 04, 2002, 03:15:20 PM »
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Originally posted by Wlfgng
hardest thing in the world to do...

but something that must be done.
I imagine when it's my time and I'm old and grey(er)...
once my quality of life sucks then please. put me down.


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« Reply #10 on: November 04, 2002, 03:17:36 PM »
I remember holding my 14 year old airedale- she'd had a stroke and couldn't move her back legs.  Even though it's quick, painless and peaceful, it's one of the hardest things you can do.  Still, you owe them for all they've given to be there when they go.

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« Reply #11 on: November 04, 2002, 03:26:06 PM »
AKDejaVu : Sorry to hear of your loss . Been throgh it and it's not fun at all . Time does heal though , that's a good thing .

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« Reply #12 on: November 04, 2002, 03:46:35 PM »
If it should be I grow frail and weak
And pain prevents my peaceful sleep,
Then you must do what must be done
When this last battle can't be won.

You will be sad, I understand.
Selfishness might stay your hand.
But on this day, more than the rest,
Your love and friendship take the test.

We've had so many happy years
That what's to come can hold no fears.
You'd not want me to suffer. So,
When the time comes, please let me go.

Take me where my needs they'll tend.
Only -- stay with me until the end.
Hold me firm and speak to me.
Until my eyes no longer see.

I know, in time, you, too, will see
It is a kindness that you do for me.
Although my tail its last has waved,
From pain and suffering I've been saved.

Do not grieve it should be you
Who must decide this thing to do.
We've been so close, we two, these years......
Don't let your heart hold any tears.

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« Reply #13 on: November 04, 2002, 03:48:41 PM »
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man you don't know how right you are !  :)

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« Reply #14 on: November 04, 2002, 03:50:00 PM »
sorry to hear, Deja.  It's better to put them down than to watch them live out their remaining days in pain and in terror when they go naturally.  My previous cat had a respiratory infection that she just couldn't kick totally.  She got better and the vet said she was sounding really good.  A few months later her lungs just gave up on her one night without warning (she was acting fine 5 minutes before).  She died in my roommate's arms on the way to the 24 hr emergency vet.  She was terrified and in pain the last minutes of her life.  I wish I had known that was going to happen and could have put her down peacefully and without the pain she endured.  What you're doing is best for your bud, and as much as it hurts your heart, he'd thank you for it if he could.

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