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Offline Beefcake

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I'm not joking either, I'm really starting to feel realy down. Just to let you guys know, I am a now 17 year old guy who has a VERY short fuse. There are things that people do and say that just piss me off. *sigh*..............gonna go see a doctor soon.
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Offline Udie

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« Reply #1 on: May 04, 2000, 06:19:00 PM »
Beefcake,

 I bet your depressed because your thinking of quitting your favorite hobby.  I went through a very bad depression when I quit WB back in Aug.

 I don't think evrybody hates ya either. At least I don't.  Take a brake for a couple of days, then get your favorite ride up and go whack some skulls  

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« Reply #2 on: May 04, 2000, 06:25:00 PM »
Funked thinks Beef should go to the doctor.

Offline weazel

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« Reply #3 on: May 04, 2000, 06:35:00 PM »
 As someone who has dealt with depression  my whole life I can only say go to the Doctor and find out what the problem is.
 It`s debilitating and only gets worse if you don`t face it. I tried to kill myself twice in the last year,withdrawing from Aces High or society will only worsen what your feeling.Your a valued member of our little cyber community please don`t leave it.

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« Reply #4 on: May 04, 2000, 06:56:00 PM »
Beefcake, I don't know you, but I would like to. This world of ours has enough problems as it is. Kick back, take your shoes off, laugh at your mockers. Don't worry about people laughing at you becuase they may be better at a Game than you are. Heck, most of the people here are better than me! I Don't Care! I have fun anyway. Get your butt back here dude, come on!  

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« Reply #5 on: May 04, 2000, 07:54:00 PM »
Remember, it's just a game.  When it stops being fun for you, take a break.  Watch some TV, read a book, play basketball...  

You might also try flying goons, fighters, and tanks.  I found that I had a blast with them, no matter what your skill level may be.

You might also try giving AH 1 to 2 day break.  You might find yourself longing to play after that time, or you may not.  The choice whether to continue or not should then be clear.

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(As an aside to you:  My family suffers from depression too.  In our case it is due to a "chemical imbalance" i.e. too much or too little of a neurotransmitter.  There are treatments for this that can really help you out.  Trust me, there is nothing worse than being nervous continuously for no apparent reason.)

Offline MarkVZ

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« Reply #6 on: May 04, 2000, 08:30:00 PM »
Beef,
This is interesting to me because I've been there.  Sometimes I would get so frustrated by some of the aspects of the game that I'd just let the next guy to see me blast me, and promptly log off.  Guys, don't take this as a  flame against AH, but Beef, I'd say take a break from it for a few days as was suggested.  Go do things with friends and discover new things outside of Aces High.  After playing Aces High for hours and hours a day, I'd sometimes feel horrible about the time I had wasted, and the good I could have done elsewhere in that time.  
Just out of curiosity, how many of the adults here could have imagined playing this for hours and hours on end as a kid, and how many would have looked back and wished they would have tried different things, got out more, and not wasted their time in front of a monitor? That is excatly how things were going for me, until recently.  My solution was to cut my AH time way down and do other things.  Aces High is very entertaining, but it IS addictive.  I would get so wrapped up in conquering bases hour after hour, and step back after a wasted day, and say "Gee, I captured 5 bases today, but who cares?"  Again, this isn't a flame against AH or the community, but Beef, Aces High shouldn't be this large of a thing to you, because friends and family are more important by far.  The community here is great, but it can't be your only social contact.  Get out with your friends and do something, and eventually you wont be able to wait to jump back into your B17 and blast sissyfires out of the sky again.

Keep your head up Beef-Man.

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Offline CptTrips

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« Reply #7 on: May 04, 2000, 08:42:00 PM »
>I'd sometimes feel horrible about the time
>I had wasted, and the good I could have
>done elsewhere in that time.


Hehehe.  But at least you're not paying by the hour.   Imagine your angst then.  

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« Reply #8 on: May 04, 2000, 09:53:00 PM »
been there done that check the doc if you even think you might have a prob. then check a second doc(they can be fools to.if they agree LISTEN and DO WHAT THEY SAY.

will save you years of beeing in a world of toejam.

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« Reply #9 on: May 04, 2000, 10:40:00 PM »
Heya Beef,

I'm no doctor, but sounds like your takin it way to serious.  Maybe its exams, girls, parents --- whatever.
I think you should find something that's fun and go there for a while --- blow off steam.

If you want you should try flying with us FDB's -- this is NOT a pathetic excuse to recruit you or anything.  I literally get shot down because I'm laughing so hard and can't concentrate, we just have a ton of fun!!

Seriously my advice like everybody else is TALK TO SOMEONE! And do not take AH too seriously.


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Offline Jochen

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« Reply #10 on: May 05, 2000, 01:16:00 AM »
 
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gonna go see a doctor soon.

That is good advice for many AH players, I think.

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« Reply #11 on: May 05, 2000, 01:45:00 AM »
Beef.. get some help... NOW

My son committed suicide in 1992, he was 17 years old.

I'll not bother you with the problems that he had, other than he showed no outward signs of any depression to any of his friends, or parents, leading up to that day.

Just get some sort of help... ASAP

and then,, get a life.  get off yer backside, go outside and do something that interests you other than computer related.

If ya need to talk to someone, talk to ANYONE about it. Hell,, talk to me.

I'll listen and answer asap..

give me a call if ya want.

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« Reply #12 on: May 05, 2000, 03:04:00 AM »
Hey Beefcake, I dont know what exactly is your problem with AH, anyway, if you want to be happier with this game:
1 - Fight for a tangible goal, not for scores.
2 - Dont check scores.
3 - If you find people better than you then you are a lucky man, you will have the chance to learn from them.

Offline danish

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« Reply #13 on: May 05, 2000, 03:20:00 AM »
Read SC-GreyBeard's post again.Do it.

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« Reply #14 on: May 05, 2000, 08:46:00 AM »
Take a look at those not as fortunate as the gift of life that you are now experiencing.  Stand back and re-evaluate your life.  Now, it's not that  bad is it?

I have a liver disease that will  eventually kill me, but I don't sulk on it, I move on with life, try to get the most out of it.

"Sail yourself a journey through life, a destination it shall  never be..."

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and shoot the sucker down!


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