MIRAMAR, Fla., Dec. 4 — As far as some Florida parents are concerned, first-grade teacher Geneta Codner is a true grinch after she told her class that Santa Claus was “make-believe.”
SANDRA JOLLY said her 6-year-old son’s Christmas was spoiled when the substitute teacher made the statement in class on Monday.
“He had this sad, lost puppy dog look on his face. This unhappy, empty look,” Jolly said. “He said his teacher informed the entire class that Santa is make-believe.”
D.J.’s teacher was reading a story about the Tooth Fairy when the class started discussing what was real and what was not, said district spokesman Joe Donzelli.
When the subject of Santa came up, the teacher started questioning parts of his story — How could a fat jolly man fit down a chimney? How could reindeer fly around the world in one night? — and told the children that wasn’t possible.
“It’s all been blown out of proportion,” Codner said. “I’m sorry (parents) think I meant it that way. We were just having a discussion. I don’t know where all this hurt came from.”
The teacher said none of the children acted upset or sad during class.
But Jolly and others disagree.
“How do you destroy a 6-year-old like that?” said Pam Sturt, whose son Bradley is in D.J.’s class.
Donzelli said the school’s principal “had a real stern conversation” with the teacher. But there will be no written reprimand because she did not violate any school district policy.
“We have no Santa clause,” Donzelli said. “We would think that teachers would use better judgment.”
I'm kinda on the fence about this one. I grew up in an agnostic/ Jewish household, and never believed in any fat guys, rabbits or fairies. Gifts were always from family members, even when my friends assured me they were from magical entities. I never minded that and things turned out fine. Now, however, I have two nephews, age 4 and 7, who are growing in very different surroundings. I think that they too will be fine but I soemtimes wonder how and when they're going to come upon the truth about childhood myths. Most kids, I hope, figure things out on their own. Many do get the bad news from older children or adults... Is there any inherent trauma to be associated with this dawning of reality? Can that mother that was quoted honestly believe that prematurely letting a young child in on the harsh truth actually damage that child in some way? Seems a bit overzealous to me. Perhaps the trauma in this case is felt more by the parents because they weren't the ones spilling the beans about Santa.
Thoughts?
