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Offline Pfunk

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« on: February 10, 2004, 05:47:53 PM »
I am a broke college student and have already spent to much $$ on gifts, so going out to eat is not an option. Does anyone have some good recipes for a romantic meal made at home? Maybe something like a surf and turf, or a poultry dish.

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« Reply #1 on: February 10, 2004, 06:15:37 PM »
Break up with her, then make up again after the 14th and her birthday.

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« Reply #2 on: February 10, 2004, 06:21:54 PM »
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Break up with her, then make up again after the 14th and her birthday.


LOL you ever had a girlfriend:rofl

Your hand dont count BTW

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« Reply #3 on: February 10, 2004, 06:27:41 PM »
Yeah a guy with imaginary internet pornstar girlfriends is making cracks about my sex life.  LOL

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« Reply #4 on: February 10, 2004, 06:37:56 PM »
I dunno, to me Surf-n-turf is dubious taste and you're doubling your failure chances.

A handing tip in planning a dinner is to use something cooks call METT-T

M: Meal
E: Equipment
T: Tablemates
T: Talent
T: Time Available

Meal: this seems pretty clear: "A romantic dinner".
Tablemates: Sure, a girl.  Two people is going to make the choice of food easier, but get a little more detailed intel if you can:
    A) What did this person grow up eating? Are we talking someone used to Big Macs or Foie Gras? Are there "Comfort Foods" you can exploit?
   B) When you dine out, what sorts of places do you go to? Shoney's? Normaltown cafe? The Basil Press? The botanical gardens? Any place that features a half-pound burger?
  C) What does she like?
  D) How about Duck?

Equipment:
  A) What's your kitchen like? What tools do you have? Pots, Pans, knives, ovens, stoves, machines, spill it out.
  B) Quality food depends on quality ingredients. What are your supply streams like?
             1) How well do you know the hippy food places in town? They can have good foods (organics), but usually they're staffed by well-heeled, well-meaning, but food-ignorant middle-class white kids.  That means that the food can be good, but is not necessarily treated well.   And poorly treated food can be nasty. Do you feel comfortable evaluating foodstuffs in an environment that has the best and the worst the town has to offer?
            2) How about ties to the local agricultural producers? Know of any good produce stands? Places you can get a fresh-slaughtered chicken? Sometimes speaking spanish can help.
            3) If you have to go the supermarket route, go to the Publix E of town (the one by the Borders). Recon the place one morning. Morning is key, because the fresh fish is gone pretty early.  Check stuff out.  What's fresh? What kinds of meat, fish and vegetables look good? any fresh-looking fruits?

Talent: How much cooking do you do? What kinds of meals are you proficient in? What sorts of processes (e.g., baking, frying, rolling puff pastry)?

TIme available: There's not much.  Ideally, you want to recon tomorrow, and determine the strike package.  3 days is the minimum for say a bouef a la bourguignonne, or for home-cured salmon. (hmmm... now Lox is always a good thing to have around, it's easy, and it's impressive, but does freak some people out)
But if you're going to be cooking seafood, that needs to be as fresh as possible.  Expect traffic around the choice items, though.

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« Reply #5 on: February 10, 2004, 06:43:53 PM »
4) If you are not a homosexual, skip all of the above and shell out for a real dinner at a restaurant, you cheap ****.

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« Reply #6 on: February 10, 2004, 06:47:49 PM »
I'd just go out but if ya can't, no way are you going to put on a good surf and turf at home for cheap. Cheaper than going out sure, but still pretty pricey.

If you have parents, friends, sisters etc. close to you, borrow some good candles sticks or holders, and a fondue set. Someone has one, pry an unused wedding gift. Total $0.

2 bottles of Cooks champagne are $7 bucks for the pair.

Add $15 in chocolate, cheese, strawberries and some French bread. Chill the champagne, dice the bread, hit the lights, light the candles, and fondue warmer,  get her drunk, enjoy.

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« Reply #7 on: February 10, 2004, 06:58:09 PM »
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Yeah a guy with imaginary internet pornstar girlfriends is making cracks about my sex life.  LOL


Oh no my friend she is for real.
But not my girlfriend.
Just a friend and a penpal.

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« Reply #8 on: February 10, 2004, 07:05:37 PM »
Unless you've got good culinary skills, forget the S&T. If she's cool, she's not going to care all that much about what you do as long as you make it all about her. Don't know much about where you live, but just keep it simple. Alcohol and lots of personal attention will get you through it okay. One tip, if your gonna cook, make as much of it as you can in advance, that way she's not getting bored while you're wasting a bunch of valentines time in the kitchen banging away when you should be on the couch....... well, you get the drift!:D

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« Reply #9 on: February 10, 2004, 07:06:39 PM »
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Oh no my friend she is for real.
But not my girlfriend.
Just a friend and a penpal.


OK I give you a mission, get her to post here.  :)

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« Reply #10 on: February 10, 2004, 07:09:30 PM »
fine. 3 words:
ABC Package Store.

Funked, V-Day, in my experience, sucks as a night to dine out.  Every place is full, and mostly sappy couples. The whole goal of the event, unless things have changed since I moved back to the midwest and became a pathetic bachelor, is to get laid.
If men ran the world, V-Day would be a slam-dunk night for nookie.  As it is, it's a royal pain in the ass, and winning or losing often seems to have little to do with sentiment or preparation.
One thing is for certain, and that's that restaurants suck on valentine's day. every "nice" place is swamped; food quality decreases, crowd factor goes up, ugly scenes everywhere, and the huge pricetag makes everyone unhappy and ready for bed.
Creamo's cooks-and-fondue is a much better call.





Oh yeah, here's one for you:

run down to that publix on the East side.  In their fancy cheese container they have a lot of crap you don't want to have anything to do with.  They also have all kinds of mozzarella. Pick upt he stuff that says "Lupara" and has a wolf on it.  It's the real deal, Mozzarella di Bufala, made from the water buffalo in the area around Naples, and is the only thing in the state of georgia thatis technically mozzarella.  
While you're there, grab some fresh tomatoes on the vine, and some fresh basil leaves.. (yeah I know it's not the season for either.  But you're int he south).  Get some Extra Virgin Olive Oil if you don't have it already (always tasty anyway).
Cut the mozzarella and tomatoes into slices, arrange on plates, garnish with basil leaves, sea salt and frehs-ground pepper.  Drizzle olive oil on top, and you've got a classic appettizer. (insalata caprese).
Plus you can do a little internet research on mozz di bufala and impress her with your culinary knowledge.

For the plate, grab some Maverick steaks at same publix -- go for the NY strip steak or something. Grab some potatoes. I like the small ones. Purchase some truffle oil while you're at it. If you get the concentrated stuff, mix a bit with olive oil; normally you'll get some stuff that's already cut (how do you tell? Well, if you say, "holy crap, this stuff is more than a buck a teaspoon", you've got the uncut stuff.

Cook the potatoes, and rice them (hell mash 'em. you won't have a ricer)
Put a mixture of half-butter, half-olive/truffle oil in a pan, melt it and get it hot at medium-high heat. Throw in the steaks, brown 30 seconds to a side, then cook for 4 minutes on a side (you may want to try this earlier to make sure you get the right doneness for your hardware. Deploying an untested recipe is dangerous).  Take the steaks out and let them set for a minute while you prepare the plates.

Serve with a decent red.  ABC had some CA merlot last month for $8/bottle that was pretty tasty.
« Last Edit: February 10, 2004, 07:20:49 PM by Dinger »

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« Reply #11 on: February 10, 2004, 07:19:58 PM »
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OK I give you a mission, get her to post here.  :)


LOL why would she want to:rofl

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« Reply #12 on: February 10, 2004, 07:31:34 PM »
KFC, and don't forget a parfait for her :aok

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« Reply #13 on: February 10, 2004, 08:10:29 PM »
thanks Dinger, never really been in the Publix, but I will definetly check it out.  90% of the nice restuarants in downtown are doing flat rate dinners at $30-$50 per person.  To much $$ for me, and even if I did from previous years experience vday reservations were made weeks ago.

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« Reply #14 on: February 10, 2004, 09:42:12 PM »
Arby's...really splurge and get curly fries for her, you know, because it's a special day and all.