wildthing have you never needed help in you life? If not that could explain why you think its wrong. Maybe I shouldn't say this on boards but here is what I told him.
"I'm willing to help but If you do not pay back then You make it so I can't continue to help others. My rule has been once burned then stop".
so far not 1 person in aces high has burned me when i thought it was right to do. many have paid me for video cards i got them, And ones i gave away free, these people have been kind considerate people in game. which this game needs btw.
I am not saying everyone should help. I was very lucky in my life. Had people help me get my company started and great employers who i still call friends. It lets me be in a position to help. For this I'm am lucky, I know most get by month to month.