Okay, maybe it is a hardware issue. If your settings/hardware don't give you at least a halfway decent night vision, it would be much harder. I guess I'm lucky in that respect.
Incidentally, Darling and Curly, I was referring to seeing aircraft FROM another aircraft. Spotting planes from a stationary spot on the ground against a sky backdrop is one thing... I'm talking about looking through distorted, hazed plexi canopy, added to cockpit management tasks, added to an endless horizon of ground clutter. Sure you can spot planes, but are you spotting them all? Are you sure? You'd be surprised.
Tough call on the hardware issue, though. With a moon as big and full as we get in AH every "night", illumination should be better.
But I still have loads of fun at night. I hope they keep it.