Ok Ghost, ytou seem pretty lost here...
However I am a hopeful guy so I will try again:
Germnay was made a prosperous free, liberal democracy, within a a decade of WW2. Before that time Germany had little wish for or experience with democracy. In fact germans turned away from democracy and voted in Hitler party just a few years before. Personal freedoms were not too high. The country was militaristic and autocratic for centuries. Yet it quickly became a democacy under US gudiance.
Japan too, had nealy 2,000 years of either Imperial or miliraty rule with no democracy, few freedoms, a miliratistic spirit, staunch undeomcratic religion. Yet within a few years of ww2 it became a democracy under US guidance.
I see no reason why Iraq is differet. In fact i'm shocked that you as german is not able to see the paralels.
Thats all I can say, the rest is up to you. Chose ignorance, or chose reason, but choose...
Also I must ask are you really saying that your informal anecdotal chats with various arabs on the strrets in germany GERMANY!! is more representative of IRAQI people feelings, experiences and opinins about the war than a thurough detailed scientific poll conducted in IRAQ itself?
Are you actually saying that? Seriously?
But hey its cool that you are Croatian!!

Were you born there or in germany?