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Offline Drunky

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« Reply #15 on: May 06, 2004, 11:35:42 PM »
Mother-in-law got it.  She's closer to me than my own mother ('nother story there).

Forced to due single mastecmy (sp) and lymph nodes.  Six months later she found another lump.  Doc's said it's just scar tissue.  It wasn't.

Another surgery and many rounds of treatment later and almost two years now she now has had both breasts removed but she seems to be clear.

God I hope I'm not jinxing it with this.  Her hair is also coming back nicely.

Prayers with you jigsaw.
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« Reply #16 on: May 06, 2004, 11:51:35 PM »
Hey Drunky Prayers to you and yours as well.

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« Reply #17 on: May 06, 2004, 11:52:28 PM »
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If the old farts in government were dropping like flies on account of man-breast cancer, there'd prolly already be a cure.


Sir you just hit the nail on the head!

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« Reply #18 on: May 07, 2004, 02:56:48 AM »
Best wishes for you and your mom jigsaw. My mom has had one lung removed and a few rounds of chemo so i know what you are going through.


You are not alone.

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« Reply #19 on: May 09, 2004, 04:54:17 PM »
Thanks ya'll. I really appreciate all the support.  My mom and aunt are the only family I have left, so they're the big priority for me.

Mom stays pretty active for her age (61). Even got her to start online college classes to upgrade her AA degree she's had since before I was around to a BA in order to keep her mentally active in case she wasn't up for anything physical.

When I talked to her last night, she was all excited that her eyebrows had started to grow back. :D

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« Reply #20 on: May 09, 2004, 05:11:53 PM »
Jigsaw,

I know a lot of folks who have survived cancer, including my mother.  She is doing very well several years after a lumpectomy.

Think positive.

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« Reply #21 on: May 09, 2004, 05:20:35 PM »
Jigsaw thats great!

If she didn't like her hair before, it may grow in a differnt color or even curly or straighter..

But, I guess that could be a negative thing for a woman who liked her hair..
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« Reply #22 on: May 09, 2004, 05:37:52 PM »
my prayers are with you and her.

I'm glad to see that you have your priorities straight, sad to say it's a rarity these days.  even of the people who are considered very big on family, most wouldn't have concidered relocating or managing to make the trip for every chemo treatment.  

it makes you wonder about people who are seriously confused when you talk about making it a priority over work, and social life.  and there are a lot of them that just don't get it, aren't there.

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« Reply #23 on: May 09, 2004, 05:51:40 PM »
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If the old farts in government were dropping like flies on account of man-breast cancer, there'd prolly already be a cure.


Unfortunately, that's not correct, Nash.  More men die from prostate cancer than any form of cancer.  Next to skin cancer, it's the most frequently diagnosed.

Take your age, subtract 10 and that's the percentage/probability of having prostate cancer.  Hard to believe, but verified by the city of Detroit.  Detroit has routinely autopsied all males killed in automobiles for many years.

So if you're 50, there's 40% chance (approximately) of having prostate cancer.  Old farts are dropping like flies and they will continue to drop like flies until a better understanding of the genome is reached.

I'm not sure money is the solution.  Maybe a re-alignment of research priorities?

Best of luck to you and your mom, Jigsaw.

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« Reply #24 on: May 09, 2004, 06:15:03 PM »
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If the old farts in government were dropping like flies on account of man-breast cancer, there'd prolly already be a cure.


I did find a way to get more guys interested in the problem.  on a job a couple years back the foreman was trying to collect money to sponsor his mother in the breast-cancer walk thing.  

he didn't feel right collecting the money himself (kind of unfair pressure to have the foreman ask you to donate), so he asked if I would (I was the steward on the job), and said he'd match whatever I could collect.  so after getting approval (all collections need approved) I tried to raise the cash.

I didn't have much luck at first, most of the guys didn't seem real interested.  the "it could be your mother, your daughter, your wife" angle didn't help much.

so then I found an angle that did. -

"your a guy, right?  you like breasts don't you?  without some progress on this disease we will continue to have more and more women walking around without breasts.  what do you mean you don't care? you're not gay are you?  oh, and btw- the foreman already agreed to match any funds I raised so if you donated a  he'd have to match yours along with everybody else's, you could give a lot and it would really stick it too him"

some donated just 'cause they like the originality of the approach, maybe some finally donated because they where shallow enough that this was the only way to get their attention, I don't much know or care why.  in the end though out of the 11 guys on the job I was able to collect about $650.  not a lot by any means but still I figure not to bad from a bunch of working guys who don't exactly have an abundance of $$

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« Reply #25 on: May 09, 2004, 06:29:43 PM »
My Mom is 70 and is a breast cancer survivor,so it can be beat...with lots of prayers, and mine are OTW.

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« Reply #26 on: May 09, 2004, 06:43:32 PM »
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"your a guy, right?  you like breasts don't you?  without some progress on this disease we will continue to have more and more women walking around without breasts.  what do you mean you don't care? you're not gay are you?  


Heh, pretty clever.  BTW, guys do get breast cancer.

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« Reply #27 on: May 10, 2004, 12:01:54 PM »
MATTHEW 8

[14] And when Jesus was come into Peter's house, he saw his wife's mother laid, and sick of a fever.
[15] And he touched her hand, and the fever left her: and she arose, and ministered unto them.

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« Reply #28 on: May 10, 2004, 12:08:36 PM »
call this number, get the book and read it.  make your own decision.  ask questions of me if you need to.  Our family prayers will include you and your mother.  1-800-443-3030