Married eight years, two kids (2 & 4), and my in-laws live with us (80 & 84). We are 39 (me) and almost 36.
Daily, except when sick. I start getting pretty grumpy after 24 hours.
Your wife needs to consider that about 50% of all marriages fail.
About 50% of all marriages have some sort of cheating.
Lots of married guys go to girly bars.
Even more married guys are porn junkies.
Some overwork to keep their minds off of it; others play stupid computer games way to much to keep their minds off of it.
This shouldn’t be presented as a threat, but as evidence that a husband who experiences a lack of sex can’t be expected to be a great husband.
A lot of the couples that only get at it once a week or less don’t necessarily represent healthy marriages (not that there’s anything wrong with once a week or less if that’s what both want).
Most women don’t instinctually get how important it is. You’ve got to explain it to her, beg, plead and most important talk and listen to her. A few hundred honest discussions can go a long way.
Goods luck Muck.
