Instead of venting my anger over the disgraceful behavior of some people here... instead I will borrow a quote from the Presidents eulogy over Ronald Reagan, in the hope that it will encourage you to reflect over your actions and your own personality.
As he showed what a president should be, he also showed us what a man should be.
He was a courtly, gentle and considerate man, never known to slight or embarrass others.
Ronald Reagan, may you rest in peace. You will always be loved, remembered and missed.