the victims had been tossing a football when a car drove recklessly in a parking lot packed with football fans. He said the men pulled the blond-haired driver from his car and beat him, pushing his head into the dirt.
gun issue aside. does it bother anybody else that lately the term 'victim' and the guy that took the most damage seem to mean the same thing.
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it used to be that to be a victim you had to be afflicted with a situation that was not of your own making.
the guy over-reacted (major understatement), but the 'victims' initiated the confrontation. 2 guys (you wouldn't think a marine would require help to rough up a drunk football fan) drag a man from his car, beat him, and then somehow they become the victim.
it's a very similar mentality to what I've seen in school 'discipline' and our legal system. say 2 kids get in a fight in school, when I was a kid (at least in grade school, I started noticing the changing attitudes midway through HS), regardless of who won (as long as you didn't beat the guy to the point of hospitalization after he went down), the guy who started the fight was punished, or if it was more or less mutual they both were.
now, the winner is punished. my son had a couple fights where the teachers clearly saw the other kid hit my son first, on one occasion the kid came up and just started swinging with no warning or apparent reason, on another it was escalated from an argument, the other kid started the argument and took the first swing. in both of these cases he made a bit of a mess of the other kids- nothing serious, split lips, bloody noses, eyes swollen shut, mostly a lot of blood and not much real damage.
I go to the school and the teachers lay out what had happened. I'm thinking, "OK, the other kid hit him, he defended himself. why am I here exactly?"
nope, my son gets a couple days of suspension. the other kids get no suspension, no school punishment of any kind.
I see this in the legal system as well. things like the now-infamous women with her cup of McD's coffee. the whole issue wasn't about who's fault was it that she carried a cop of hot coffee with her crotch while driving, it was all about how hurt she was.
I'm completely in support of people getting appropriate damages for things that happened to them from another's negligence. put to be able to get money from someone because being stupid din't work out for you today just doesn't sit well with me.
I wonder what message they think they are sending with these kinds of attitudes.
losers are to be pitied and protected, even if they are the cause of the situation?
or, it's OK to start problems, just don't win when it gets out of hand? (completely backward from the "don't start any trouble, but make sure the guy who did won't look forward to trying again", that I was taught.