So far, from what I read on this board, I'm not supposed to boom 'n zoom, I'm not allowed to pull any moves if I'm your victim, I'm not allowed to vulch you if you're an idiot and can't figure out there are 35 red airplanes over your base. I'm not supposed to fly high because then I'm an Alt Monkey, I'm not allowed to shoot at the front of your plane because then I'm an H.O dweeb... and so on.
Welcome to AH2.
Turn off channel 200, and ignore the stuff you read on the BBS.
Fly the way you want, have fun the way you want too.
Fly low and knife fight if you are a Spit-Dweeb, Bore n Zoom if you are a Luftwhiner. HO if the other guy lets you, jerk your stick around if that is how you like to shake a bogey.
You may find me vulching you, back stabbing you, cherry picking you, gang banging you, or you may find me being vulched, back stabbed etc. But you won't find me whining on channel 200 or this BBS about how you want to fly or that you did something I didn't like.

But then I am not a "Honorable" pilot, who flies by some unwritten code, defined differently by different pilots.