Try the forums and FAQ's at
http://www.overlcockers.com . Also, since you are using an AMD, try
http://www.amdforums.com .
Unfortunately many (if not most) of the AMD processors made after November 2003 (and sold after January 2004) have their multipliers locked, and cannot be unlocked, even by the motherboard. The only solution for overclocking those processors is to turn up th FSB.
I bought PC4000 memory for that very reason, although I have a Mobile Barton 2500+ that is unlocked. The slower memory just won't run with the FSB turned up, you get too many errors and such, and it corrupts everything.
Also, some motherboards just aren't real good for overclocking. My Mom has the same board as you have, with a regualr 2500 AMD. I have not tried to overclock hers, since she doesn't need it.
AMD processors run HOT. You need top notch cooling to overclock them successfully, and to make them last and be reliable. I spent an extra $75 on a good fan and heatsink for mine.
My rig runs near 24/7, and my AMD 2500+ Mobile Barton has been running at 2.4GHz since February. It benchmarks as being equal to an Intel P4 3.2 . But I did a lot of research to make it happen before I spent a nickel.