Ok, I'll play:
First of all, I repeat the word "idiotic" for a sound rhetorical purpose: if someone's going to challenge my calling something "idiotic", I have to use that word to explain my position.
Secondly, if you read, I have, and do suggest ways to "fix" the scoring.
Third, your evaluation of the "current system" is flawed:
A. Nobody really knows what will happen in an HO.
Negative. Both pilots spray a lot of ammo on target before it registers. While it's not 100% certain, the current system favors lower pings and bigger guns.
B. If the other pilot loses a wing but manages to hold it together longer.. he gets the kill.
Great. So if the other pilot decides to ride his bird into the ground, he gets a kill, while the silk rider gets a "kilt"? We're substituting one game of chicken (who'll flinch first on HO) with another (who'll bail first)? What sense is that?
C. There simply is no solution to the HO "scoring" debate.
Nonsense. make the player have to "sit out" 30 seconds after bailing (from moment of bailout), crashing or exploding. In that period, keep accumulating kills. That way, you make them pay a tolerable penalty for dying, limit vulchees, and all on the excuse that you need to keep the scoring "above boards"
D. So.. once again. If you don't like the way kills are asigned in an HO... avoid them more.
And what about furballs? This morning Easymo in his cannon hawg whacked my La5, but as I was too low to bail out, I rode it into the ground. A shifty connect and high lag bought me an extra second. In that period he got whacked. I died and no kill was awarded.
E. "idiocy" is figuring you already know every way to avoid them.
Lessee:
1. Don't attack someone's 12 ock.
2. Don't get yourself into a situation where you're co-E or worse with any con whatsoever, especially ones you're not engaged with.
3. Don't fly near guys warping all over the place
4. Don't fly if you're warping all over the place
That covers about all the HOs I've encountered. I will, of course, concede the point that it's a conceited pilot who claims he doesn't need constant training.