Man, Nils.....that's tuff. Old people are so cool...dontcha wish they could hang around longer? They have so much to offer, if only people would take the time to sit and listen to them. I sat down with my grandpa, some years ago when he was 93, and taped a 2.5 hour conversation with him. We talked about his boyhood (born in 1896), the depression, WWII, life in general. That tape is one of my most prized possessions. Soon I'm gonna make my 17 y.o. son sit down and listen to it.
I'm glad to hear you were so close to her. I know you must be a better man for her being in your life.