As quoted from a friend who works in the UN building:
just got back from a meeting with the Iraq working group.  They reminded me that there are many things we don’t hear on TV about the conflict.  For example, I didn’t know that the Stars and Stripes magazine puts the official US soldiers’ deaths related to the conflict is over 5000.  
If a soldier died outside of Iraq (i.e. Military hospitals overseas or in DC, then he or she is not counted in the official Pentagon’s count of war deaths).  Sorry to be a such a downer, I’ll stop right here.  
I hope we can reflect on our good fortune and those less fortunate wherever we are-Japan, Minnesota, Wisconsin, Hawaii, and California.  Cheers.