Author Topic: What would you do? (Read 1100 times)

Siaf__csf · « **Reply #30 on:** January 26, 2005, 02:49:23 PM »

Thank you for your nice words.. It's (unfortunately) not a troll. I'm dumbfounded myself as we go way back with this guy. We're talking almost 20 years.

lada · « **Reply #31 on:** January 26, 2005, 02:50:31 PM »

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Originally posted by Siaf__csf
We have 2 kids and a mortgage..

Actually I feel pity for the guy.. he's 32 and a virgin. What can I say.

LOL just ask him if is he thinking about marry a virgin girl.... If he will not refuse, send him on vacation to ME.
He will never return.

A. He will find a girl for himself

or

B. Someone will eat him for lunch.

patrone · « **Reply #32 on:** January 26, 2005, 02:51:58 PM »

He sounds to be just like a "friend" of mine that use to come around my house while I was on tour. My Wife hated his guts but let him in, out of respect for him being my friend.

I came home earlier then expected one time and was laying in my bed for to read, when he came visiting. He did´nt know I was home and did´nt even ask for me. I waited to hear what he had to say and how things where developing.
My Wife played along as she was utterly sick of his behavior.
After a while I exposed my presance.

Guess what? Never saw or heard from him again and that was like 10 years ago.

Ohio43 · « **Reply #33 on:** January 26, 2005, 02:52:21 PM »

Ive been down this road before as well. You need to find out WHY she told you this information. Is she telling you because the advance(s) annoy her, or is she subconsciously feeling that shes not getting enough emotional love (ya women like that crap) from you and hopes that by telling you would draw you closer to her? Mine pulled that on me 4 years ago when I was neglecting her because I was addicted to another online game and she ended up leaving me. In a way, I cannot blame my wife..

Charon · « **Reply #34 on:** January 26, 2005, 02:53:19 PM »

Are you absolutely sure? What you describe is not all that conclusive. Has he been direct at all or just flirty?

Charon

JB88 · « **Reply #35 on:** January 26, 2005, 02:53:42 PM »

ah yes. good point ohio.

they are a cunning breed. she looks nice...but we all know women are evil incarnate.

still. id keep an eye.

Delirium · « **Reply #36 on:** January 26, 2005, 03:33:36 PM »

If your wife agrees he is out of control, let her handle it, if she is a good woman she is probably biting her tongue because he is your friend.

The next time he flirts, have her say, "Sorry, but my husband is good to me and you're obviously hung like a gerbil."

If she insults his 'member', he won't bother her again.

Red Tail 444 · « **Reply #37 on:** January 26, 2005, 04:05:16 PM »

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Originally posted by bustr
You have a beautiful wife and daughter.

Christ Almighty, now EVERYONE'S gonna be hitting on her.....

Dago · « **Reply #38 on:** January 26, 2005, 04:07:56 PM »

Your friend is out of line, showing you no respect or friendship.

In your situation, I would tell him firmly that he is no longer welcome in my home, no longer would I consider him a friend, and if he returned to my home, he should expect to be met with phsical violence.

Then, if he returns, kick him in the nads.

dago

eskimo2 · « **Reply #39 on:** January 26, 2005, 04:58:14 PM »

Your wife is pretty
Your kid is cute.
You’re “friend”, isn’t.
Two out of three aint bad.

I’d bet that your wife told you about your friend’s behavior because she is annoyed and not the least bit interested in him.

The best thing that you can do for your old friend is to tell him that his actions cost him your friendship. It might actually make him a better person. He doesn’t deserve to be your friend; don’t look back.

eskimo

indy007 · « **Reply #40 on:** January 26, 2005, 05:21:45 PM »

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Originally posted by Siaf__csf
We have 2 kids and a mortgage..

Actually I feel pity for the guy.. he's 32 and a virgin. What can I say.

Somebody mentioned it earlier.. get your "friend" a hooker. Urgently. Also, make sure you're paying your wife the attention she deserves. Don't take it as an insult, it's something I get yelled at for by the g/f all the time.

bustr · « **Reply #41 on:** January 26, 2005, 05:22:07 PM »

Siaf__csf,

It doesn't sound like you are looking for a physical solution, you would be telling us a story rather than asking for advice. Aside from the braggado being shared here, you see that for males on both sides of the Atlantic, the natural reaction to encrochments of this nature are not pleasent. My personal moment was to take my encrocher for a walk away from witnesses and present him with 2 choices, leave or be carried away permenetly. Do you see why I asked if this was the prudent way to seek help for your situation?

What do you really want to do?

Dago · « **Reply #42 on:** January 26, 2005, 06:52:05 PM »

BTW, he is showing an insulting amount of disrespect for your wife. He is acting as if he believes she is the type of woman who would not be faithful to her husband, and her marriage vows. That is a terrible thing to assume of a person, especially the wife of a friend.

I still think a warning he is not welcome and to stay away, followed by a kick to the nads if he returns.

dago

Martlet · « **Reply #43 on:** January 26, 2005, 06:53:19 PM »

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Originally posted by Dago
BTW, he is showing an insulting amount of disrespect for your wife. He is acting as if he believes she is the type of woman who would not be faithful to her husband, and her marriage vows. That is a terrible thing to assume of a person, especially the wife of a friend.

I still think a warning he is not welcome and to stay away, followed by a kick to the nads if he returns.

dago

Maybe she is that type of woman.

Thrawn · « **Reply #44 on:** January 26, 2005, 07:01:43 PM »

Cripes, I was going to tell you to kick his ass...but a 32 year old virgin? He's got enough problems.