Women are counseled to get a restraining order as soon as they file for divorce. 99% of the time the judge grants it. What most men don't realise is you have just been found guilty without a trial or a chance to face your accuser. It flags with the local police that you are not a good citizen and they act accordingly.
In many states, once the order is issued you must turn over your fire arms to the police or become a felon. The police then can invade your home, violate your freedom and confinscate your property. Also because the order is issued you now are a criminal and are denied access to your children. It weighs against you in court when custody comes up.
Many women do this vidictively. It stays as a perminant part of your new criminal record which can impact your ability to be employed. Funny this is cutting off the golden goose to spite their own noses. And they also want you to pay support...
Divorce in america is now a multibillion dollar business. It works best when the husband gets screwed without a chance to defend himself. It's because he has greater earning ability on average than the wife.
